Take your judgment and shove it!

I just experienced a situation where on one of my social media sites a person messaged me asking me how I know so-and-so. I explained how I know them to which that person replied that they aren't lifestyle (meaning swing/kink/fetish) and that they were uncomfortable with the overlap.

I became very angry at the fact that I'm "good enough" for a person so long as I meet some criteria, however, the moment we know someone, I'm deemed bad and must be removed.

I removed the person in question and I will more than likely remove the other, I will not be shamed just because your worried about some overlap.