February 19, 2013

Spanking thoughts

I have been thinking.... and yes I do that a lot *giggles*

Do any of you go through periods of where there isn't play? Could be from an illness, busyness of life, etc.

How do you make sure to get your "spank on" when you can't always play as you once did?

Do you (submissive/slave) get permission from your Master/Sir to spank yourself?
Do you (if your single) make sure to feed your craving on your own?
Do you ask your Master/Sir for some play time?

I'd be very interested to hear your suggestions and thoughts!

Happy Tuesday Everyone!!

Spanxs and Lixxs!


  1. For myself, I'm in an LDR (long distance relationship) and this winter has been hard on both of us. Due to weather considerations, we haven't seen each other since New Years and because of our schedules we might not see each other again until late March. She's getting grumpy and I'm about ready to spank the first thing that moves. All we can do though is just tough it out a day at a time because there's light at the end of the tunnel.

    1. DaChief, thank you so much for replying! I know what your girl must be feeling. I think we all do when it comes to playing or changes in our schedule.

      Hopefully March will be here before you know it!

  2. Definitely have to DIY at times .. :((

    1. Michael, what implements do you use? I'd love to know!! I have a flogger, wooden spoons, various other objects. I think my hand would be one of the easiest in a pinch, wouldn't you say?

  3. I get really cranky, whiny, needy, and start asking DH for it more regularly. If that doens't work because life is getting in between us, I will start breaking the little rules...

  4. I understand Julia! I've been known to break the little rules as well.