Autumn branches and spankings

I was out earlier this afternoon with my dogs, seeing all the autumn leaves flying about and all I could think about was which branch would make an excellent switch? 

Clearly too much naughtiness going on inside my head!

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Lixxs and Spanxs!

Saturday Spankings

Tonight we are going out to a kink event, we help our community and volunteer our time with setting up. 

Check out www.rascals-club.com that's where I will be, come on down, you may just see me cumming on demand *wink*

Fuck me please!

I want You to fuck me, over and over.
I know You are the only one who can decide if You will.
Touch me, spank me, force me at Your will.
My thoughts are only of what You have in mind, blind folded as I am; no clue as to what You choose.

I want You to fuck me, over and over.
Mark me, flog me, make me Your own..
Drag me by my hair, reminding me of my place.
Cuff me, gag me, watch my body start to quiver.

I want You to fuck me, over and over.
I want You to fuck me, over and over.

There is no place I'd rather be than having You fuck me, over and over.

Missing my Kink

Gosh where do I begin? For those of you are are still around, THANK YOU!

I've been going through a lot health wise and it has really made me miss my kinky side.

Recently Master and I went to Rascals and had a really good time. We even played out in public! He made me my new play collar and I absolutely love it!! It was then that I realized that Master and I really need to connect on the dark side much more!!

I also went to a Subbie Tea 2 weeks ago, that was the 1st in a very long time. It was lovely to see my sisters and to be able to laugh and hold topics of conversation for a few hours.

Master and I have gone to poly discussions, which have been very informative and have opened us up to friendships.

My health has been doing much better and I look forward to posting more and more.

Licks and Spanxs!

What's It Like to Be Collared?

I wore one once, and in my nativity it was I who bought it for my then Dom, thinking because it was what I wanted that He would appreciate my initiative in choosing this myself. When we parted ways, I gave it to Him, thinking it was His property. As I said I was new and with someone who thought he was a Dominant. Many years later, it is clear He never was.

Years have come and gone, as has life, but I have always wondered what it would be like to be collared. What's it like to have a ceremony? What's it like to look in the mirror and see that I am someone's property?

I imagine my self esteem would increase because there isn't just my own sense of self worth that rises, but the pride my Dom/Sir/Master would have in me.

I am in a open relationship and My Sir is my Primary I am not collared.

For me to be collared I've imaged feeling a sense of pride, not just in who I am as a person, but pride in that I am chosen to represent a piece of our unity together.

What kind of S-type are you?

So I was perving my favorite kink board and saw this test on the wall. Thought I would take it for a spin and here's my result :)

You clock in as a classic submissive. You like giving over to your Dominant’s will, not just submitting to a Top’s sensation. You have a few boundaries and limits to what you will or won’t do, but you are eager to do what it takes to please and pleasure the one to whom you submit. You may love pain, or love to give service, or adore sex, but your desire for giving over is what drives you the strongest.

For a deeper dive into all of your submissive tendencies, join the Submissive Playground course in January 2014 for four weeks of creative, sexy explorations.

Learn more at www.submissiveplayground.com

I wonder if any of my previous play partners would agree? Master, do you?

Take the test and post your results! I'd love to see how many of you are Slave or Submissive and do you agree with that result?

How I See My Master

I know it has been a long time, (a few months) since I have written. There have been a variety of reasons, but now that things are starting to return to better paths, I thought I would do an update. 

I wrote this recently and am going to share it here:

Over two and half years ago you can into my life, literally by a drive to an event that cancelled suddenly. Never had I felt so comfortable as we chatted while you drove to and from the event. Your ease to make me laugh, your sexy voice was all I had known, other than a profile picture of sexy man's chest.

During our conversations, not once did I ever see a photo of you til that evening you decided to drive back from the cancelled event and we spoke of meeting. You graciously went to Tim Hortons and picked up my steeped tea and you your triple triple. When you returned, you came to my home (something I seldom, if ever allowed anyone to come to) that was the very first time I had ever seen your face, the entire person, no longer just a voice and torso. Talk about a handsome and sexy man!

As our days and weeks went by, we realized we are joined. We both just knew that we are meant to be together.

I have no words to describe the passion you bring out in me. When we have done a scene, you have always made sure to have everything I need for when I return from sub drop. Your arms surrounding me, making me feel safe, always. Even so much as to make sure the next day, how I was and if I needed anything.

I smile with appreciation when I have seen you do a scene with another submissive. To see your floggers dance across the flesh, rhythm flowing to music that pulsates through your veins.

In our day to day life, you have always had my best interests. Through surgery, recovery and physical pain, you never wavered. My mental health has been a challenge, yet with your support and communication, you have shown me that not all run away. You have given me acceptance and returning of trust, something I thought I had long since lost.

You understand me, you encourage me and challenge me.

I am proud to be your submissive and love you with all that I am.

Grinding in the laundry room - fucked in the bedroom

Yep its one of THOSE kinds of posts lol!

Sleepy Sunday mornings, where I am doing laundry and Master comes in to check something and slides his body parallel to mine.  His cock alerts me to his sexual desires as Master lifts my naughty nightie exposing my flesh....

I get onto our bed, on all fours, nightie (very short and sexy) slipped above my waist exposing my ass. Master fondles every part of my body asking me if I have missed Him. Naturally I say I have, as He fingers my pussy, preparing me for what is to come.

I feel the tip of His cock playing with my pussy lips, the lube sliding around and making everything nice and slippery. SMACK, goes His hand on my ass, telling me how much He has missed my ass, THRUST as grabs my hips and says that they are the sexiest hips and are happy they are His.

I could go on.... but use your imagination, share your thoughts, let me know what you would like to see as the result of our morning....

Transparent Life

My Dominant and I have remained in touch for many years. We flirt, we text, we send messages on Fetlife, its nice to have that connection.

He is someone I look to for friendship and support. Our friendship has grown and although we don't see one another very often, what with work, commitments, you know how life can be like that.  There is no judgment with Him, just as there are no judgments from my primary, Master C.

I've been there for Him the last few weeks as has my fellow slave sister. He has been going through numerous tests and the results finally come through yesterday.

My Dominant is about to go through some life changes and I plan on being there for Him, as my slave sister will be as well.  He needs that right now, someone to help Him adjust to new medications, proper healthy foods as well as making sure He remains in as good a spirits as possible.

Being poly to me doesn't mean just sexually.  Polyamory means having a loving relationship with more than one person. It means being romantic with more than one person.  To go back to the word itself, it means investing amorous emotions in more than one person.

Master C and I are very transparent with one another.  It means that everyone, including my Dominant, knows what the other is doing, who they are seeing and who they are sleeping with. No one engages in NSA sex, everyone knows their sexual partners well enough to know their particular relationship will continue for awhile and that it will be based on more than just casual sex; everyone respects one another and their is always mutual sensitivity towards everyone's feelings.

In other words, it is not about "just" sex.
It is about love.

Changes

I've been going through my profile on Fetlife and removing and adding topics and "likes".

What about about yourself? Do you go through your lists? Friends, Kinks, Likes/Dislikes/ Forums?

What do you feel it says about you?

I feel pretty good about going through and making changes. I feel it shows where my growth is and it also has it has given me a chance to add forums I hadn't been able to find before.

I love being kinky, having fetishes, friendships in the Community with like minded people.

Kink is good!

Reflecting

I feel like I have been neglecting my kink community and readers. BOO!

I think in some ways I have, yet from time to time I read my fellow kink bloggers blogs and catch up on what they have been up to, what has been asked as a topic of conversation or perhaps a new fetish has arisen!

So here's an idea!! I'm going to write a Top 5 Blog! I want it to include things I have learned, kinks you have shared, and tips I have picked up!

Now let's get started:

1. What topics interest you my reader? Are you wanting more topics that are about my kink life, or more about our kink community and things I learn?
2. Do you think I should get a bare handed spanking, a crop, or flogger when I have been a naughty submissive? 
3. What do you think is important in a D/s relationship? 
4. Have you been in a Total Power Exchange relationship? If so, what have you liked/disliked about it?
5. Do you have down times where you don't blog for a while? Do you let your readers know?

I look forward to hearing from you!

Lixxs and Spanxs, 

When eating

or licking your Master/Mistress cock or pussy what do you enjoy the most? Is there something you look for in scent and taste? Have you ever discussed with your Master/Mistress foods to avoid when going down on them? Some may say they will eat what they want and you will just suck it up. Others, as has been my experience, will actually discuss this topic. I think it is important because if you don't enjoy licking pussy or sucking cock and it is an important part of your sexual relationship, this could cause some serious problems.

I know for me, I've learned over the years what fruits enhance the flavor of cum in a positive way. I'm not a huge cum lover, but I do like sucking cock. I love to feel the hardness as it goes down my throat, I love deep throating and I love how my spit makes Master's cock look.

What makes a good cock sucker? What makes a good pussy licker? Is it texture? Is it scent? Is it attention to detail?

Discuss!

Are you?

I've been chatting with my former Dominant. We have always remained close and we have played over the years. Master has met him and there are no issues with me playing with Him.

I also have a close friendship with Him. He said that He knows He will always get the truth from me. Its nice to know that my words are valued. I am also this way in my submission. When I choose to be a submissive to Master or to this Dominant, I take it very seriously because I know that being a good girl is what makes them happy as well as myself. I find when I am doing what makes me happy, it shows in my service.

I've not had a poly relationship in a while. Sometimes I miss it, other times I am wrapped up in my other projects. But somehow I always remember my place. If not, I get reminded!

How about you? Are you in a poly relationship?

Negotiating

Today was subbie tea day! I've not been in quite sometime and I very nearly didn't attend. I've been having a lot of trouble with getting sleep and subsequently my mood and energy is lacking. But Master insisted I go, He was going to be doing some renovations to our bathroom while I was away. 

I got to our subbie tea location and as usual our hostess, with the mostess, has outdone herself. Always conscious of allergies and food concerns for everyone. There was 1% milk, almond milk and soy milk for your tea and coffee. To gluten free foods, fresh fruits with chocolate for dipping, vegetables with a herb dip as well as spinach dip with homemade made bread to go with it.  It is a great time to catch up with other submissive people as well as discuss the day's topic which was: 

THE ART OF NEGOTIATION

This topic wasn't just for new people to the bdsm kink community. It is always great to have a refresher. For me today this refresher was in the discussion of safe words and realizing there are many different ways to get your safe word out. 

1. You can use visual "safe words" as they are excellent for when you are at a public play party and it is noisy. Or if you have a ball gag in your mouth.  An example of a visual can be a yellow ball in one hand and a red ball in the other hand. They can represent your level of acceptance.
2. You can use a small object and toss it on the floor or towards your Top when you have reached your "red" level of acceptance (if that is what you have negotiated). 

I found this topic refreshing as I have been in the bdsm community for 5 years this year and it is always good to go over your check list of what you are ok with watching, what you won't do, what you love and what you are curious about. 

Always remember there is NEVER to be any negotiation once a scene has started. 

That all limits are off the table until discussed. THEN and only THEN are the ones agreed to, are the ones allowed. NEVER allow a Top to introduce during a scene a change that you did not consent to. 

Always remember that negotiations will always be ongoing, as you evolve and grow. Mine have and I'm sure yours have or will the longer you are in the Community. 

Spanxs and Lixxs

Its the little things

This morning I got up and made Master a fresh pot of coffee. He is a man who in the morning is very groggy and will often just grab whatever is available, but I thought He would like something fresh. He takes such good care of me, especially with my lifestyle eating changes. He has been measuring my portions, and reminding me of the benefits of making sure I get enough protein and exercise. I love how it is the little things that keep our dynamic working.

I also love it when we will be giving kisses goodbye and He asserts His dominance by grabbing a bunch of my hair at the back of my hair and passionately kisses me.

What do you like to have done to you/with you as a reminder of your dynamic?

Next Time He Will Attach my Tits..

With nipple clamps to the treadmill!!

Yep, that's what Master said to me after our workout at the gym today.

He may be a  mean old man, but I love the way He thinks!

He does give a new spin on exercise and kink being combined!!

His determination to our health and weight loss is paying off and will continue to pay off.

For dinner we are having mashed cauliflower, meat and probably salad. All prepared by Him.

I am so blessed to have Him for my Master.

Licks and Spanxxs!

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012

Today we saw that a friend of ours from Journey To the Darkside made it on this list again this year they are number 62!! Congratulations to Anakin and Padme amidala.

Be sure to check out Between My Sheets to see the list in its entirety! 

The goal this year is to visit as many of the blogs on the list that I've never visisted before and I will leave a comment. I am looking forward to making new friends, following new and amazing writers. Hey and as we are heading into the holiday season, why not wear a little garland "in all the right places" *wink*. I will be sure to say that Rori, from Between My Sheets sent me! 

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Sensual Sierra

2nd Anniversary!

Tomorrow, November 19th, will mark the 2 year anniversary that I met my Master and we decided to step forth on our journey to the dark side. 

We have been through many roads, some straight, some wavy, but through it all, He is such a strength for me. He encourages me to be the best I can be. He holds me when my days are stressful and He loves my quirky ways. We are each other's best friends and my submission to Him, although slow at first, is 100%. 

Master has a meanie side, but I like that side :p! In fact, the other day we were going through a store and what does He do, He grabbed a foamy hammer (think Flintstones) and started whacking my ass with it in the store lol! We both laughed and smirked away. He wanted to buy it as a prop for a photo shoots we may do together or for other shoots He may want to do. We may not always get to play on the dark side as much as we would like to. But even on days when we aren't playing, there are always little things we say to one another, that remind us of our bond. 

I love Master's spontaneous side! He can and does often come up with creative and mischievous things to do with the naughty side. He's an amazing kisser, lover and Master. He keeps me and our fur pack safe and warm. He always does His best at whatever He does. 

I'm a very lucky girl to have such a loving Master. 

May your days and nights be full of Kink!

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Butt Plugs!!

Every now and again Master will ask that I put in my butt plug. I know that this is for His pleasure as He likes to see me doing my chores and service while attempting to walk like a lady. If I don't, He will make me stop in my tracks and start over!! 

I also like my ass to be good and ready for Him, especially if we are going to be doing anal. I love, love anal sex. Master knows I have the best orgasms from anal sex.

Here's the thing, how many of you can keep your butt plug in your ass? Even if I am being spanked or fucked, my butt plug will end up coming out! It makes me crazy and then I start to giggle, which of course Master sees me being a brat and well you know that means.... longer butt plug punishment! 

So readers and lurkers, do I need a smaller butt plug? Is my ass sphincter too tight that it just shoots it out after a period of time? 

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Halloween Hijinks!

Its that time of year! Master loves Halloween! He loves everything about it! Mind you being in the career He is in, makes Him that much more excited!

We've seen a lot of classic movies on TMC this week, all on the Horror Films of the 1940's on up! Its amazing how back then what was deemed scary, didn't make me flinch. However, the more the years went up, the more intense the scary scenes were! The likes of Vincent Price, Boris Karloff and Bela Legosi to name a few of the old school legends!


We've even caught a few with kink in them, that back then, very few would have noticed LOL!

With all the parties that will be going on this weekend, what do you like about Halloween the best? Are you someone who loves it? Do you like to dress up? Do you like the movies, if so what are you favorites?

Now who can forget Elvira?! The sexy minx that everyone knows of! Halloween wouldn't be Halloween without her!

I think she looks super hot here! Love the cuffs and her entire package. YUMMY!

Not sure what Master has in store for Halloween yet, I'm hoping lots of naughty toys and spankings will be coming to me. Master loves to play on the dark side and when not a better time than Halloween! 

Spooks and Spanxs to you all!