Thursday's Licking

So needs a good licking, playing with my ring and clit..... make it happen.

Happy Thursday!

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Saturday Spankings

Tonight we are going out to a kink event, we help our community and volunteer our time with setting up. 

Check out www.rascals-club.com that's where I will be, come on down, you may just see me cumming on demand *wink*

Take your judgment and shove it!

I just experienced a situation where on one of my social media sites a person messaged me asking me how I know so-and-so. I explained how I know them to which that person replied that they aren't lifestyle (meaning swing/kink/fetish) and that they were uncomfortable with the overlap.

I became very angry at the fact that I'm "good enough" for a person so long as I meet some criteria, however, the moment we know someone, I'm deemed bad and must be removed.

I removed the person in question and I will more than likely remove the other, I will not be shamed just because your worried about some overlap.

Missing my Kink

Gosh where do I begin? For those of you are are still around, THANK YOU!

I've been going through a lot health wise and it has really made me miss my kinky side.

Recently Master and I went to Rascals and had a really good time. We even played out in public! He made me my new play collar and I absolutely love it!! It was then that I realized that Master and I really need to connect on the dark side much more!!

I also went to a Subbie Tea 2 weeks ago, that was the 1st in a very long time. It was lovely to see my sisters and to be able to laugh and hold topics of conversation for a few hours.

Master and I have gone to poly discussions, which have been very informative and have opened us up to friendships.

My health has been doing much better and I look forward to posting more and more.

Licks and Spanxs!

What kind of S-type are you?

So I was perving my favorite kink board and saw this test on the wall. Thought I would take it for a spin and here's my result :)

You clock in as a classic submissive. You like giving over to your Dominant’s will, not just submitting to a Top’s sensation. You have a few boundaries and limits to what you will or won’t do, but you are eager to do what it takes to please and pleasure the one to whom you submit. You may love pain, or love to give service, or adore sex, but your desire for giving over is what drives you the strongest.

For a deeper dive into all of your submissive tendencies, join the Submissive Playground course in January 2014 for four weeks of creative, sexy explorations.

Learn more at www.submissiveplayground.com

I wonder if any of my previous play partners would agree? Master, do you?

Take the test and post your results! I'd love to see how many of you are Slave or Submissive and do you agree with that result?

Fetlife

Lately there has been issues on  Fetlife. For those that don't know Fetlife  is a BDSM kink community site.

For many months now, the site has come up on news media for various reasons, which if you think about it, is really no different than Facebook, its just that Fetlife is a site where people who may keep their kinks to themselves, many of us embrace ours. The other reason people choose to be anonymous about themselves is because society doesn't accept people who choose to live a lifestyle that accepts them for who they are. When a breach has happened, many become anxious and angry.

Some of the issues with breach of the terms of agreement for using the site, members outing one another when a relationship goes wrong and links being shared that involve children, which is in direct violation of the terms of agreement.

I don't know about you, but for me, I have scaled back what is on my profile and have been removing more and more photos (not that that changes anything, because we all know that once you put something up on the internet, it is up for life). The reason for me is simple, I've not been active in the community as much as I once was and I feel it is wrong to have comments on my profile depicting that I am available when right now, I'm focused on other areas of my life.

While the site has given me a platform for community, friendships, education and growth. I am concerned about the level of protection given. People need to take accountability for themselves, but when the owner of the site breaches his own Terms of Agreement, one has to wonder just what is deemed safe anymore?

Its the little things

This morning I got up and made Master a fresh pot of coffee. He is a man who in the morning is very groggy and will often just grab whatever is available, but I thought He would like something fresh. He takes such good care of me, especially with my lifestyle eating changes. He has been measuring my portions, and reminding me of the benefits of making sure I get enough protein and exercise. I love how it is the little things that keep our dynamic working.

I also love it when we will be giving kisses goodbye and He asserts His dominance by grabbing a bunch of my hair at the back of my hair and passionately kisses me.

What do you like to have done to you/with you as a reminder of your dynamic?

Sweet November Nibbles

Oh the raining, windy weather is enough to put anyone in a cave until Spring, isn't it!? 

Well, I think it is a perfect opportunity to explore and play with new toys and to try new scenes with your play partner. Go to upcoming events like the Whistler Lifestyle take over this weekend! Master and I won a weekend pass to attend and are excited to be going. If you are interested in what's happening check out www.whistlerlifestyle.com. 

So go and enjoy whatever makes you hot and wet with anticipation

banner courtesy of  emerson-ringrose

If you are curious about going but aren't sure what Whistler Lifestyle is all about, here are a few testimonials from previous years. 

http://www.whistlerlifestyle.com/testimonials/

Lixxs and Spanxs!