Liebster Award

I was catching up with one of my favorite blogs that I frequent My Bottom Smarts and Bonnie has posted that she was awarded the Liebster Award. Congratulations Bonnie! 

I did some research on what this Award was about and from what I have found its origin is in Germany as a way to encourage bloggers with fewer than 200 followers on their blog. I’ve seen a few definitions of the German word “Liebster”. The ones I think probably best for the award are “beloved” and “favorite”. Part of accepting this award is to nominate 5 other bloggers for the award. It is not required that they live or have lived in Germany.

As I was reading Bonnie's answers to the 11 questions about herself as well as questions that the blogger who nominated her asked.  In a unique style, Bonnie decided to ask the following:

If there is anyone out there who has a blog and feels worthy of a Liebster (whatever that means), please consider yourself officially invited to participate by me. Here are your questions:

1. What's the most foolish thing you've ever bought? MC Hammer Pants lol
2. What is your favorite body of water? Pacific
3. After a spanking, lotion or no lotion? no lotion
4. Would you skinny dip if you could be sure that no one would see? I'd skinny dip for sure!
5. What was the first name of your first crush? John
6. What is your favorite flower? Carnation, same as my grandmother
7. What is the best reason to have children? To name just one is so difficult! To be able to love unconditionally, to teach and show them the beauty of life.
8. Do you snore? No I don't snore.
9. What is your favorite smell? Baking Bread
10. Are you attracted to people in uniform? Yes, definitely!
11. Do you prefer mountains, beach, forest, desert, grasslands, or city? I prefer the mountains

I pass the torch as Bonnie has, please share your answers to the above 11 questions. I look forward to reading your answers!

Enjoy your night!

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012

Today we saw that a friend of ours from Journey To the Darkside made it on this list again this year they are number 62!! Congratulations to Anakin and Padme amidala.

Be sure to check out Between My Sheets to see the list in its entirety! 

The goal this year is to visit as many of the blogs on the list that I've never visisted before and I will leave a comment. I am looking forward to making new friends, following new and amazing writers. Hey and as we are heading into the holiday season, why not wear a little garland "in all the right places" *wink*. I will be sure to say that Rori, from Between My Sheets sent me! 

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Sensual Sierra

2nd Anniversary!

Tomorrow, November 19th, will mark the 2 year anniversary that I met my Master and we decided to step forth on our journey to the dark side. 

We have been through many roads, some straight, some wavy, but through it all, He is such a strength for me. He encourages me to be the best I can be. He holds me when my days are stressful and He loves my quirky ways. We are each other's best friends and my submission to Him, although slow at first, is 100%. 

Master has a meanie side, but I like that side :p! In fact, the other day we were going through a store and what does He do, He grabbed a foamy hammer (think Flintstones) and started whacking my ass with it in the store lol! We both laughed and smirked away. He wanted to buy it as a prop for a photo shoots we may do together or for other shoots He may want to do. We may not always get to play on the dark side as much as we would like to. But even on days when we aren't playing, there are always little things we say to one another, that remind us of our bond. 

I love Master's spontaneous side! He can and does often come up with creative and mischievous things to do with the naughty side. He's an amazing kisser, lover and Master. He keeps me and our fur pack safe and warm. He always does His best at whatever He does. 

I'm a very lucky girl to have such a loving Master. 

May your days and nights be full of Kink!

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Butt Plugs!!

Every now and again Master will ask that I put in my butt plug. I know that this is for His pleasure as He likes to see me doing my chores and service while attempting to walk like a lady. If I don't, He will make me stop in my tracks and start over!! 

I also like my ass to be good and ready for Him, especially if we are going to be doing anal. I love, love anal sex. Master knows I have the best orgasms from anal sex.

Here's the thing, how many of you can keep your butt plug in your ass? Even if I am being spanked or fucked, my butt plug will end up coming out! It makes me crazy and then I start to giggle, which of course Master sees me being a brat and well you know that means.... longer butt plug punishment! 

So readers and lurkers, do I need a smaller butt plug? Is my ass sphincter too tight that it just shoots it out after a period of time? 

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Love our Lurkers 7

I've been wondering when this would happen again! We participated last year and received comments about our blog. It felt really great to see that many who read our blog were coming out from lurking and writing about much they enjoyed reading our stories! We are thrilled to see that it was such a huge success that Bonnie is doing it again this year! 

Master and I are really hoping that you will all share your thoughts on our blog Sexy on the Darkside. We always answer our emails and reply back. Even if we are super tired, we feel it is important to let our readers know how important you all are to us! If it weren't for you, we wouldn't have the blog we do! 

If you are shy about leaving a comment with your name, don't be! You can use a fake name, or even sign in anonymously! You can be someone who often reads and writes or someone who reads and has always wanted to reply, but were really shy to. 

We would really love to hear from you all. Master and I do love to share our stories with you all, even though we haven't been blogging all that long, (this is our 2nd Love our Lurkers), we have truly loved our experiences and journey. 

We would also like to take this opportunity to thank padme amidala and Master Anakin for getting us started with our first Lurker's blog last year! Please be sure to check out their blog Journey to the Darkside

So don't be shy take advantage of this opportunity to share what you want, and be sure to check out Bonnie's blog as well! 

Lixxs and Spanxxs! 

Sweet November Nibbles

Oh the raining, windy weather is enough to put anyone in a cave until Spring, isn't it!? 

Well, I think it is a perfect opportunity to explore and play with new toys and to try new scenes with your play partner. Go to upcoming events like the Whistler Lifestyle take over this weekend! Master and I won a weekend pass to attend and are excited to be going. If you are interested in what's happening check out www.whistlerlifestyle.com. 

So go and enjoy whatever makes you hot and wet with anticipation

banner courtesy of  emerson-ringrose

If you are curious about going but aren't sure what Whistler Lifestyle is all about, here are a few testimonials from previous years. 

http://www.whistlerlifestyle.com/testimonials/

Lixxs and Spanxs!

Halloween Hijinks!

Its that time of year! Master loves Halloween! He loves everything about it! Mind you being in the career He is in, makes Him that much more excited!

We've seen a lot of classic movies on TMC this week, all on the Horror Films of the 1940's on up! Its amazing how back then what was deemed scary, didn't make me flinch. However, the more the years went up, the more intense the scary scenes were! The likes of Vincent Price, Boris Karloff and Bela Legosi to name a few of the old school legends!


We've even caught a few with kink in them, that back then, very few would have noticed LOL!

With all the parties that will be going on this weekend, what do you like about Halloween the best? Are you someone who loves it? Do you like to dress up? Do you like the movies, if so what are you favorites?

Now who can forget Elvira?! The sexy minx that everyone knows of! Halloween wouldn't be Halloween without her!

I think she looks super hot here! Love the cuffs and her entire package. YUMMY!

Not sure what Master has in store for Halloween yet, I'm hoping lots of naughty toys and spankings will be coming to me. Master loves to play on the dark side and when not a better time than Halloween! 

Spooks and Spanxs to you all!

Rascals Halloween Bash!

Our date night had finally arrived and I was super excited! Master had been preparing His costume for this event for a couple of days now. He had this huge skull that had super bright red lights when you turned them on! He then had a black outfit that he wore over His clothes and combined with the skeleton He looked like Achmed the Dead Terrorist! 

For those that don't know who Achmed is, He is a puppet with ventriloquist Jeff Dunham.

So we get ready to go and meet our friends who are helping set up Rascals for the Halloween Event. 

Halloween is a very cool theme at Rascals. The person who organizes it, does a fantastic job and I know we wouldn't get a lot of the set up if it weren't for the volunteers who come out to help. Thank you to everyone involved! 

Master and I got ready at Rascals. I decided to go as a 17th century prostitute! *shocker* I even had sexy lacy black panties to wear underneath my outfit. Master liked me wearing it with my top cupping my boobs and we put lipstick around my nipples because that is what the 17th century prostitutes did *giggles*. I got a lot of very sexy comments on my breasts. I must admit, I am very proud of them! Here is a photo of Master doing a Hitachi play with me and my breasts. 

I asked Master if we could do a scene and He said yes we could!! Rascals was super busy, so we didn't want to wait too long, so we waited a few minutes before one of two St. Andrew's Cross became available. 

Master usually blind folds me, but He didn't have the blindfold this time, so I closed my eyes and listened to His voice. He clothes pegged the back of my dress, revealing my ass. I was excited, I could feel it! 

Master warmed my ass, every once in a while He would growl deeply in my ear, making me melt even more in anticipation of what was to come! Barehanded spankings were making my ass flinch, it had been way too long, and my skin was like a new baby's bottom lol! Soon though, I could feel the warmth rise from my flesh, a beginning of a happy place was starting. 

There is no sex at Rascals so our scene didn't involve that, but it was a great 45 minutes! I felt the floggers, the crop, his bare hands all on my ass! I know we wanted to put the clothes pegs on my tits but for some reason my nipples were super sensitive and usually once the clip has settled in, they stay on comfortably. Not this time!! But Master slapped them and definitely reminded me they are His to do as He wishes! 

So by the time He was done, I was in a very happy subbie space! It was great to be able to just let go for a while, to be with friends and my Master. 

Monday Blues

Yes, it is one of THOSE days! Monday is here, after a weekend of heavy rain, clouds and wind. It seems our Autumn weather of warmth and Summer time sun has left and we are now left with the grey of  what will most likely stick around til Spring. 

This makes me sad, as Master has gone to work on a tv show today. He will be very busy til well after 10pm tonight. I get lonely when he is gone for long stretches like this. Master wasn't well yesterday, so we didn't go and visit our friends. So if you throw that on top of today's schedule, I have too much time on my hands. 

This can make for a naughty submissive. If she knew what to get into that involved staying warm and cozy! 

So I am going to put out to the bloggerverse, that you could give me some ideas of things to get up to that will keep me occupied. 

Let me know! 

Lixxs and Spanxs,

Sexy Steampunk Wench

I've been updating our blog page, nothing like tightening and broadening your areas of attraction! 

Halloween is fast approaching and so are the various parties! Do you know what you will be this year? I do!! I never was one to wear costumes when I was young; but as a kinky adult, you bet! I'm looking to choose between a few ideas running around my mind! One of them is of a Steampunk Wench! There is a variety of ways to dress Steampunk and at first I was not a fan of it, but as I have seen and read up on costumes, I quite like the sexiness of it! 

Here is one idea I am thinking of wearing this year:

Master helped me choose what to buy and he also chose my jewelry as well. He always looks sexy when he dresses up! I for one, can't wait to go to Rascals on Oct. 20 for their Halloween Party. Rascal's is one of the major venues that throws amazing parties. Here is their link to their website http://www.rascals-club.com/

Lixxs and Spanxs!! 

Happy Thanksgiving Canada!

Master and I have enjoyed our Thanksgiving weekend a lot! Last night, we went to see our kinky friends TP and enjoy a beautiful home cooked meal. Its always a good time when you are in a room full of vanilla peeps and we are subtly doing suggestive kink things that others won't catch on to lol.

My g/f T and I were giggling because she had some food on the side of her mouth, I went to wipe it off and she said "care to lick it off" I said with a giggle and a grin, "somehow we would shock your company" lol.

There was a very loud fundraising event two doors down and at times we were all outside, sharing stories of what it was like for all of us when we would go to parties like that. I miss those days! Master working in the career he does, always is good for many laughs at his experiences of setting up stages for bands to play on.

Not long after we all sat down for the festive turkey dinner. Everyone had brought an item so there was a lot of food! I brought carrots made with butter, brown sugar and nutmeg, they were a huge hit!

I was sitting beside Master and I was serving food onto His plate. I told Him that I wanted to be His good girl and serve Him. He said "I didn't realize it was "that" kind of dinner" lol. I said Master, I enjoy serving you even if it isn't lol. He squeezed my leg under the table, which made me smile.

Its fun adding D/s to our evenings when we are out. Even the smallest of things, makes us smile.  Even when Master spanks my butt in front of company, many will laugh not even knowing that to U/us it means something company different than what they know!

Variety is the spice!!

So I've been looking and perving various sites and photos. My favorite favorite fetish model is Bettie Page. I saw this photo and have to say this one is Hot!!

I've topped boys and I have bottomed on rare occasion to women, however, I think maybe this time I would like to top a woman! 

Mind you it is hot to bottom to a sexy Mistress too! I think I would happily bottom to Bettie Page, wouldn't you?

What's your fantasy or fetish? Do you want to bottom to me? Do you want me to top you? Perhaps giving you one of your fantasies?  If so, tell me why? I'd love to hear your story, you just never know, we could make plans and make it a reality! 

This is for my kink  friends who are into pet playing :)

Lixxs and Spanxs!!

Outdoor Play

Today we decided to go for a walk along a path we have been wanting to go on. Our dogs were out in front of us and Master had one of the leashes. Suddenly I felt a few "whacks" on my bottom, well low and behold Master was teasing me with spankings! 

I have a feeling that our next exploration is going to involve me over a log and a spanking with the leash (thank goodness the leash is not metal!). 

What would you like to see me spanked with?

1) a tree branch

2) a flogger

3) a bare hand

4) a dog leash

5) Master's belt

We would love to hear what your answers! You most suggestions will be the ones that Master uses!!

Have a great Monday!

Coffee Dates and Kink

Well for those that have been waiting to hear about our weekend (if you recall I had mentioned that Master and i were to be attending an event with friends. Well unfortunately, that didn't happen. I was quite disappointed and Master was too. We have been so wrapped up with our bathroom renovations, that things have been crazy for the last several weeks with that project. We will be glad when we are done! 

Today, however, we went with our friends for coffee at Tim Hortons. I love meeting for coffee, it gives us a chance to get away from these renovations, and a chance to catch up with our sexy friends. We sat and they shared their experience of the event from last night. They had a really good time and it was just what they were looking for! The right amount of kink, with a night full of adventure!!

I believe that learning something new everyday is healthy and important. Today, for me that word is:

For no particular reason, I find this sexy! The idea of being brought to a high level of arousal, yet denied an orgasm. 

We also spoke about topping from the bottom. Now if that were me and it has been, I know that it will eventually get me into some serious punishment from whomever I am with that is the top. As it is, there is a situation with my friends and their slave topping from the bottom. So Master shared his knowledge and experience of how to deal with topping from the bottom. 

Its important to know your place when you are in a D/s dynamic. But it is even MORE important to know what it is that YOU want out of your D/s dynamic. I know my role, I know my place and for me that makes me a very happy and lucky girl. I also know I am a Switch to others, in certain situations and for that I truly enjoy being a top. It doesn't happen very often, but when it does, there is a rush for me, quite like no other. 

Lixxs and Spanxs! 

Sierra

Feel Good Friday!!

Well its finally Friday! How many of you have kinky plans this weekend? Master and I do have plans tonight and tomorrow night! Tonight we are going to a bbq with kinkster that we are taking to our public event tomorrow. We are bringing some homemade chicken wings tonight and we get to enjoy the warmth of their hot tub and fire pit! 

Its going to be a hot night! Master and I are nudists and the hot tub is clothing optional, YIPEE! I love the feeling of the warm water on my skin, the jets against my back. Not sure if we are going to be doing any playing tonight, but we will see! Perhaps I can take some pics and post them over the weekend!

Very recently, I had some body art done. I have waited for a good year for this wonderful and very sexy lady to do this for me. It was such a sensual experience, too feel the paint caress my skin, softly and easily. The colors of green and white chosen to go with the hazel of my eyes.  I'm posting a photo below, I'd love to hear what you think of it. Master has many more as we did an impromptu photo shoot, he promises to get them finished so we can not only send them to our friend who did the painting, but so we can share them with you, our blogger friends! 

I just love how everything blended so beautifully, even my dog got into the shot lol! 

Happy Friday Everyone, 

Lixxs,

Sierra

Spankings Me!

Master took this photo of me recently. He teased me horribly!! Pinching my boobies and making me stand with my hands behind my back! Then we went out for the day and I had to make sure my nipples were erect all day! You should have seen the looks from peeps LOL! I even had a man come up to me and compliment me! Master was very proud of his girl!!  I love being his good girl! 

What would you use to spank my boobs? I love having them spanked and slapped. I also love having my nipples pinched! 

We are going to an event this weekend, I can't wait!! Its been a while since we have gone out to a public event. We are taking some new friends with us!! I love watching the awe and amazement in their eyes as they adjust to seeing how the kink world enjoys themselves! 

Happy Thursday!!

Lixxs and Spanks!

Sierra

TGIF!!

Something came across my path this morning and it triggered a thought. What does the word play mean to you? 

As many of you know Master and I are poly. However, I've been struggling with my feelings around that right now, it is most likely to do with my growth and changes I have been going through in my vanilla life as I come to acceptance of some things. 

Play to me can mean sex or it can mean doing a public or private scene.  For me, negotiating and discussion on what is understood is huge. I never leave anything to be assumed.

When Master says do you want to play? I know he is referring to a scene that usually incorporates sex into our time together. In fact most if not all my play partners in my BDSM experience sex has always been a factor. But what does it mean to you? 

There are people who do not incorporate sexual activity into their relationships. In fact, "back in the day" sex had nothing to do with BDSM scenes. I often have wondered if it is the combination of arisen endorphin's, sexual chemistry and energy, that have encouraged physical intimacy? 

If it is your first time playing, emotions can and often do come to the surface, causing you to potentially feel like you have found your partner, your life mate, when on his/her side it was nothing more than part of a scene, the moment now long past, he/she has gone on about their life; yet you are still riding the waves of your experience, hoping for more and often! I know what that feels like, I'm sure a few of us know what that feels like, especially when you haven't had a mentor to advise you and teach you what to look for. 

When I am at a swinging event, play means "let's have sex". I've never heard it used any other way. 

Master has been talking to someone who is very interested in Him. She is eager to play, yet I do not know what that means to her. My gut and assumption says it is sex, but does it? She is new to the lifestyle, and I remember what it was like to be exposed to all the excitement and wonder. Wanting to feel every emotion, every flogger, spank and blind fold. To being that kid in the proverbial candy store wanting to eat every sweet, succulent yummy bit of sugar you can touch, til you are overloaded. 

It leaves me uneasy.

Shadowlane

OOPs, please excuse my laxs in writing! I've been busy with my 'nilla life doing renovations, tsk tsk a naughty girl am I! Anyone up to give me an OTK spanking? 

So I've been doing some research on places I've always wanted to go to but haven't gotten the chance to yet. A couple come to mind. One is Shadowlane which happens to be this weekend, and is in Las Vegas. I've never gone to a spanking event like this before and it looks like so much fun! To be mingling and possibly playing with other spanko's just gets me all excited and wet!!

It would be awesome to be with Master, on a get away weekend for a few days! Sounds so blissful! 

So how many of you want to give me a spank? What would you use on my ass? 

Here are a few that I love to feel on my ass:  floggers, wood spoons, bamboo canes, hairbrush, barehanded, crops,.... these are just a few of the many many wonderful spanking toys out there! 

Don't be shy, write me, tell me what you would want to use on me! 

Licks and Spanxxs!

Sierra

Consensual Spanking Day!!

Yay! What a fantastic day! I was reading Fetlife  that today is Consensual Spanking Day! I think this just rocks! Any reason for spanking is a great reason for me! So how many of you will be getting spanked today?

Things have been rather busy around here lately, Master has been super busy tearing down our bathroom and making way for our new one that will be put in soon! I can't wait. 

In the meantime don't forget to vote for me Don't Forget to Vote! and if you want to follow me, please do so on Twitter  SensualSierra or on Tumblr Theroadofsensuality!

Have a fantastic day! 

Lixxs and Spanxs!

2012 Top Sex Bloggers List

This is my first year entering and it would mean so much to me if you could vote for me here and show your love for my blog!! 

I voted for my top 2 sex bloggers they are:

1. My Bottom Smarts - she is a fantastic writer who shares of her love of spankings and her fantasies!

2. Life, Submission and Exploration you really should follow this weekly blogger who shares of her love of her M/s relationship with her Daddy and her enjoyment of everything they share together including Ass Fuck Fridays. 

I follow quite a few blogs, that are shown to the right of my blog, all you need to do is click on one of them and it will take you right to their site. I must admit, being a blogger is a lot of work and it is rewarding, but like all good things, it takes a lot of time and energy to become skilled at writing and to gaining followers. I know the longer I blog, the more followers I will gain. I will be going through my list and voting for them as well. Closing is AUGUST 31, 2012.

I am so appreciative of the followers I have gained, and I am always so happy to see a new one has joined or commented about something I have written about. My Master loves to hear how my blog is doing and how others are enjoying it. Thank you all for your feedback and comments!!

Be sure to follow me on Twitter SensualSierra this is where I share all of my kinky enjoyments!!