Words to live by

YAY! Today I am actually writing Day 10 of my #advent blogging. I must admit I'm down today, Master is preparing for his trip out of town for a month over the upcoming holiday season. There is no way around it and the so I accept the path before me, regardless if I like it or not. 

The following words I did not write, I saw them on Tumblr today courtesy of A Master's Journey A Master before I copy it I wanted to share that there are words that we all live by in our D/s lifestyle, some resonate more than others, some take the parts that are appropriate for them and others find that the whole context stands out to their beliefs and protocols. For myself, I would have to say a lot of this resonates with me and my relationship with my Master. 

A Master’s Creed:

As it is often important and often even necessary for one human being to have certainty and a clear understanding of the intentions, desires, motivations, and needs of another, I offer this testimony in trust and sincerity.

I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel more intelligent or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or the mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet, to you I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I have looked into your heart and mind, and clearly see your desires and passions. You have thrown away your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor. You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend, and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We complement each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong, and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you. Because I have listened to your word with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural, and the rarest gift a woman can give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.

I recognize it is your body, mind, and soul. I dominate you only because you have allowed me to, and when I see your body kneel before me in my mind and heart, you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.

Within the bounds of our relationship…it is my duty to protect you, and that you will know, that under my care; NO harm will come to you as a result of actions taken by Me..or you. That is my responsibility, to protect you..from yourself if necessary. What you give freely cannot in reality be bought.

A submissive’s Creed:

i am a submissive woman…

i find pleasure, joy and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship

i am not weak, or stupid. i am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life.

i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.

i look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am i more complete than when He is with me.

i know that He will protect my body, my mind and my soul with His strength and wisdom.

He is everything to me, as i am everything to Him.

His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me.

Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy.

His punishments are harsh, but i accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.

If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him happiness.

However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship.

The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.

my body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am.

No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes, and because of that i hold my head high for who can tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me?

If He says i am His princess, then i am that…regal and graceful.

And if i see laughter at me in the eyes of others, i do not recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong?

If He says i am His toy, His slut, His tramp, then i am that…as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be, and if others do not see this, then it is they who are blind, not my Master.

my mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know as only He can. 

i have no secrets from Him…for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being perfectly His.

Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself…and i do not want walls.

His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided i need, and so i learn from Him.

my soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when i kneel naked at His feet.

Never a moment goes by when i do not feel his presence, be He miles away or standing over me.

If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be.

The anguish of my soul that i feel when i disappoint Him is harder to bear than the physical anguish i feel when His belt caresses me with fire.

i spend my days knowing that the energy and thought He puts into our relationship is as much for my benefit as for His, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene that we do together.

i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously.

i am a submissive woman. i am proud to call myself that.

my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly, and can only be given to One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.

Only to He who has that strength will i give myself fully, because i am strong and proud.

Control

Today is days 8 & 9 of my advent blogging, in keeping up my commitment to blogging every day til the 25th of December, I hope you are enjoying the journey I am on presently and perhaps you are writing an advent blog yourself! If so, comment below in the comment section with your blog link, I would love to read your stories!! 

Its hard to believe that 2 weeks I will be having my birthday and then 2 days after it will be Christmas!! This year I, like the last few unfortunately, will be alone, it is not easy for me, I find myself become very withdrawn and isolated. My ties with my bio family are non existent and today ironically is my sister's birthday, to whom I did write a letter and wished her a very happy birthday :). The dysfunction in my family is not one that I want to be a part of, yet I do miss the bond of family. The same goes with those that I have allowed to become my chosen family. 

I was reading a fellow bloggers post and must thank Emma of Jakeskajira for the idea. She wrote about control and how it affects her. This got me thinking about how control from Master makes me feel. 

Overall, as much as I may grumble about chores and trust me there are plenty of days where I do, there are a lot of moments when I crave having the control exerted on me. Sure I may squabble over it, because I don't want to do it, or perhaps I am not in my "sub" mind frame, but wait, I am naturally a service submissive so doing housework, tending to the dogs, cats or litter box is normal for me. I'm not able to be tired, I'm not able to rest because these are things I know everyday that have to be done. There is just no way around it. 

Master at times when he sees something that will be for my own growth and benefit, will usually suggest that I look into it. A good example is He is leaving for Christmas vacation to see family and I will be here. However, we have been talking about using Skype to communicate daily and He wants me to use the treadmill and I am expected to do as is expected of me. I understand why Master wants me to do my daily exercises which includes walking the dog as it is good for my health, but I must admit right now the "down feeling" I am familiar with has started to creep back in. 

Not sure where exactly it is attached to, perhaps it isn't just one thing, the holiday season hasn't been a very happy time for me for a long time.  I know my blog is meant for (at my choosing) to be about being a pin up model and my fetishes and growth around that. But sometimes real life creeps in and I find that having an outlet when I normally don't voice my private life, helps to take it off my chest. 

Control at times means acceptance, and yes for me that means accepting the help from an unknown person that I know is putting a Christmas basket together for me, or it is the feeling of not knowing how I am going to insure my vehicle when it expires very soon and last but definitely not least the illness of my beloved pet. 

Somehow the Disability I am on although it provides for a roof over my head and heat and light in my home, still has a stigma attached to it, and this time of year, it really makes me realize how much it affects me.

Master has a way of helping me see the good and positive in many things going on, even when the road seems bleak and dark, but unfortunately being home for the holidays no matter who is in my life, will be like any other day, except I will most likely do my treadmill and walk my dogs and anything else that I know I will be expected to do. 

Communication and Consequences

I keep forgetting to blog everyday, this would be #advent blogging for days 6 and 7, I find this rather ironic as the title suggested was Communication and Consequences.  

I'm counting down the day until Christmas. I, with some other friends are blogging daily up until the 25th of December! I hope you are enjoying the reading and are blogging an advent yourself! If so, drop me a line with your blog link, I'd love to follow your stories!

The last 24 hours have really been an eye opener, I wish it were something fun and kinky. Oh how it would be so much better if it were BDSM related..  

Master is very big on communication and consequences, which means if you don't say what you mean and mean what you say and there is a fall out that could have been prevented, chances are there will be consequences. Such as what has happened with me and a situation that involves a relationship that was part of my poly life. I am so very picky when I decide to involve another person that when things fall apart, and one person doesn't communicate their true feelings or what their true intentions are, I am left to wonder and feel very hurt and confused as to what is going on. 

It takes me such a long time to get over that person because I am someone whose feelings do become involved and it seems no matter how well "I" communicate how and what I feel and what I am about, the other person seems to "tell you what you want to hear" versus the reality of something. I am tired of learning the reality from other people, after realizing on my own that not only does the deliberateness of avoidance from that other sting enough, but the words that follow. See, when someone tells me that we are friends, I take that to heart. I value my friends and even though I don't have arm loads of them, the ones I do have value me as a friend as well. Betrayal is something that is unforgivable in my books, the other is "lying by omission".   You know what lying by omission is don't you? It is when someone tells you part of what they want to say, yet not fully telling you everything all the while THEY know what their true intentions are. So in essence you are leading the other person on. 

The consequence is I am left feeling foolish for wanting to believe the words spoken to me and when the reality of what is in front of me is not what the words were told, the lying by omission stings a lot. 

I am not afraid to call people on their shit, just as I expect and have had it done to me.  

However, when someone's comments are a direct stab at my person whether it be my mental or emotional state, just shows me how immature you really are and I am happy there is no further communication.

Now let's get back to the really fun things.... where's my spanking....

Spanking I Love Lucy~

Today I am combining my advent blogs day 2 and 3 as I was not able to blog yesterday.  

Have you ever watched an episode of I Love Lucy? Besides the slap stick funnies, besides learning over the years that he was a very dominant man *and oh how yummy is that?*. It was a well known fact that the two of them incorporated the discipline into their marriage as well and vice versa. 

My Master and I were talking about this, and it made me smile to know that Lucy was getting spankings and people didn't even bat an eye and this was in the 1950's! Can you imagine if they realized and learned that we have forums and the internet has shown and shared with us all the awesome sites so that we can perv our fetish for spankings.

I love that Master is head of our house and that there is something so sexy about Him being the Boss. 

I decided while researching the episode I wanted to share I found this one and the comment came from that episode Dominant Ricky

I found this comment regarding Ricky being Dominant and it fits perfectly!!

"I like a man being the boss .. and with Ricky being from Cuba, where the men were the head of the home, it was quite fitting he would carry on the tradition in the U. S. They were a wonderful pair, loved each other totally, and I loved the show, I never tire of the reruns."

In case some of you haven't seen the episode that I was referring to on I Love Lucy here it is Ricky Ricardo's guide to marriage

For me Lucy is also a classic Pin Up Model and she is a fetish of mine. Her facial expressions, the clothes, the 1950's genre with her sexy Cuban husband Desi Arnaz, I really believe she and a few other beautiful women made up what the 1950's pin up model criteria would be. I love how curvy they were and seen as incredibly sexy women. 

I've not had a spanking in quite sometime but that doesn't mean I've not pushed the limits from time to time *grins*.  It is still one of my favorite fetishes, flogging is next but if you combine them both! Look out, happy girl will come shining through!

So what's your favorite fetish?

Laugh, Love and Live

Sierra

New Groups and Advent Calendar

I've been hard at work making a new group on Facebook, feel free to join it! Langley Swap & Buy I got the idea from another group called Chilliwack Mom Swap/Buy as I've been selling my Master's items as he is downsizing to move in with me *happy girl*. 


I've also decided to join my friend padmeamidala whose blog I follow Journey to the Darkside and do a daily #adventblog. She got the idea from a blogger she follows who I now follow Mija's blog thank you Mija for the idea!! Please check out Mija's blog if you are interested in joining us by having a countdown on your blog towards Christmas.


The idea is to blog everyday about whatever is on your mind, and do a countdown towards Christmas. This is day 1 for my #advent calendar.


I am going to copy and paste Mija's explanation (I hope she doesn't mind) 


"If you do decide to play along there are no rules, no topics and no guilt for missing a day (I may struggle sometimes myself). But do let me know either here or on Twitter. I want to put a list of everyone Advent blogging on my posts."

"You're welcome to do the same or not, whatever seems the most fun. Don't feel you have to blog about any specific topic. My own will be about whatever is on my mind for the day, be it holiday related, kink related or some political topic I can't leave alone. My only suggestion is that you use this style "My Blog Title: Day X" so there's a countdown to the 25th."


I think it will be a lot of fun to do and look forward to following padmeamidala and mija's blogs daily. I also look forward to following other #advent blogs on our countdown to Christmas!!


Don't forget to join my new group on Facebook Langley Swap & Buy  - what a great way to swap items or buy for Christmas! 

Laugh, Live & Love

Sierra

Fetishes and Sparky

Ahh whenever I hear that word I smile because I know that I am going to either re-explore something that made me really happy with the result, whether it was a shoot or perhaps a scene I participated in OR it is something new and I am giddy with anticipation.

I recently spoke with a friend of mine who has huge fetish for hosiery. He loves the feel of them as he is fucking someone, and he isn't the first man I have met to have this desire. Some men like them thigh high, with fishnets or with a reinforced toe. I always remember that someone out there in cyber world has a kink and a fetish, even if it is not the same as mine. After all, my photography isn't only about what I like or want, it is also for my readers.

For my Foot Fetish Friends 

One of my favorite things to wear is thigh highs while getting spanked over a kinky horse. No, not the animal!  I mean this:

I see I've gained a couple of followers, THANK YOU for following my journey!! I look forward to others joining as well. Don't be shy, I won't bite.... UNLESS you want me to nibble nibble.

You will see that I have added a Widget to the left of my blog. It would mean a great deal to me if you were able to donate a few dollars to help a dog in need. For those that know me, I own 2 beautiful dogs and this dog is a fellow Jack Russell Terrier. his name is Sparky.  He was horribly attacked this past Friday by two Ridgeback dogs. Now for those of you who don't know Ridgebacks are very large dogs. The incident has been reported, but in the meantime Sparky has had to undergo surgery and is still at the vet under medical supervision, he is sedated but his wounds were deep and significant. 

This is a Rhodesian Ridgeback

This is Sparky before his attack

A HUGE THANK YOU to those that can help Sparky out. It is greatly appreciated and I know his mommy and he are very greatful. 


Laugh, Live and Lots of Love


Sierra

Happy H.N.T. - Freckles and Boobs!

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Growth and Change

As I evolve more and more into who I want to be, versus who I "wish" to be, I've begun to see how complex each change really is. From breaking down the structure of how stress works to learning how to handle anger in a much more constructive and productive way.

I was at my therapy session today and I realized something really profound. I realized that it is important for me to figure out what my value is as a woman, as a person and as a life partner. I have come to realize I value the sanity I have felt the last 16 months of my life since I moved into my own home. No longer under the roof of a landlord, property manager or anyone other than myself, pets and my boyfriend. I now choose what I want to have go on in my home, that I value myself enough to know that I want to continue my journey of calm versus the many years of chaos I have lived through.

I am not ashamed to live a peaceful existence where seeking the belief of spirits and my own high power as I believe it to be, surrounds me as does lighting candles and incense for my own personal balance. I realize now that the work I have been doing on myself is complex, that the ingrained belief pattern that once was and at times tries to run the daily program of my life, is now being challenged there is now a root in my soul as I see it a cement block and within the cement block, there are buds and the starting of vines. I realized today those vines are the starting of a new life, a healthier life, where my thoughts, feelings and beliefs are become clearer, as is the heartache of what was once my life fading away into an abyss.

This growth also reflects my future choosing in Pin Up Modelling. I am excited to be exploring the designs, images and creative processes that will be before me. The creative process is always very exciting to me. The holiday season is fast approaching and I am looking forward to ideas and discussions on many possibilities.

I look forward to hearing from photographers, make up artists, other models, on their
upcoming projects and scheduling of dates to produce some AMAZING photography!

Love, Laugh and Live

Sierra

Obligations and Reality

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Erotic and Fetish Photography

A friend of mine recently reconnected with me and we started to talk about how we both perv erotic photography. While we were chatting on the subject, he directed me to a webpage called Art or Porn and gave me a few links to look at. Well let me tell you! Talk about Sizzling!! 


I thought I would pass on the information, I already mentioned to him that he had given me this fabulous idea for my next blog subject, how fabulous is that! 


So I figure what I would do is put it out to my lurkers, take a view, share your thoughts with me, I am looking for a new series of shots to have me photographed in.


They are: 


http://art-or-porn.com/
http://www.tumblr.com/liked/by/art-or-porn


I was taking a read of another link given to me, but it seems there are not many who are a fan of tumblr.com so just be warned that some seem to see it as a site to steal others work, and some use it faithfully for blogging. To each their own. I understand what its like to have photographs stolen and not given credit to. I often will give credit back to shots that aren't mine, just a personal preference of mine.


These are some shots of myself, enjoy :)

To Remember on Veteran's Day

To remember today - Remembrance Day has many a significance to many people, myself included. I, like many of you, have relatives that have either been in service, or were in the military for one reason or another. I have memories of an uncle who would march with his cadets in the yearly Remembrance Day Parade. To a grandfather who every year would pull out his uniform and stand with his comrades to honor those that he knew personally; and yet to honor those he never did.

I don't know what my father did regarding the Military. I have never heard whether he joined, or whether he served. I've wondered that from time to time. I'd like to think he had the belief system of his brothers and his father that if called to serve, that he would have. My father passed when I was a young girl of 7 years old.

I have friends who will spend today in the Legions and pubs all over the Lower Mainland where I live. Many reminiscent of days gone by. Most that are still with us are veterans of the WW II, as I seem to recall the last surviving World War I veteran has passed away. We now live through stories of written and memories on plaques, but I am thankful that for every person that has passed they are now recorded and commemorated in Ottawa, where our Parliamentary offices are.

I am going to attach a link from a friend of mine, who recently visited our Parliamentary offices. It is so worth the read, and the pictures truly capture what this day really means.  http://www.dianekennedy.ca/blog/

Love, Live and Laugh

Sierra

HALF NEKKID THURSDAY HNT

Today is the day!! Not only LOL -Love your Lurker day but its also "Half Nekkid Thursday" which has become my favorite thing in blogging lol. 


"Half-Nekkid Thursday"  make sure you check out this link Osbasso 's for more  "Half-Nekkid Thursday" for more pictures! If you want to know more about the blogger Osbasso, by all means check out his site  http://osbasso.blogspot.com/.

Ah yes, my dark Pin Up side! See she just loves to come out and show you all what stepping into the dark side can bring :). She is so much fun, as this series was too to I am looking forward to bringing out more pictures for you all to look at and comment on.

Love, Live and Laugh! 

Sierra

LOL - Love Our Lurkers Day!

LOL - Love Our Lurkers Day

So I have yet again learned of a site that loves to hear from our Lurkers!! Thank you again to padme amidala of Journey to the Darkside. See how having a friend in the fetish lifestyle, a fellow spanko and lover of blogging has shared something that I too love immensely. 


Thank you to Bonnie of My Bottom Smarts for starting this! As someone who has just a year into blogging, and in the last month or so, really dedicated herself to creating not only a fun blog, but a blog of sharing about my fetishes. Spanking is one of my favorites! I know there are many lurkers out there, who completely enjoy either watching someone be spanked or better yet, be on the receiving end of that paddle, or bare hand! I know I do. 


So I personally could really use some encouragement! I have been craving a spanking for ages now, but because My Master and I have had some private matters not related to what I blog about, distracting us from our play, it may be that we now need to be encouraged to get back into it!! What do you think? 


Your comments will be VERY encouraging to us as we share with you, our lurkers, the results of all your comments and what we do with them. I love to have a very red bottom, My Master can be quite rough when he is in a mean mood!!  Perhaps you the Lurker could select what YOU would like to see me spanked with? Master has floggers, crops, of course his bare hand, paddles, OUCH, my butt is starting to tingle just thinking about all those lovely toys!!

What would you use on me? 

Be sure to spread the word with everyone about LOL - Love Our Lurkers Day tonight and tomorrow. You just never know who will come out and share your blog as well as make new friends for you. :)

Love, Live and Laughter


Sierra

Transformation into Kink

I recently received a comment that my blog is very seductive and the question followed was how and when did I start my transformation? This question has had me pondering, when did I decide to step into the dark side?

I would have to say about 14 years ago. A time when I was looking to spice up my life and my marriage. Funny how the spice part stayed with me, and the marriage.... not so much.

3 years ago I was introduced to kink and I've never looked back! The smell of leather in its many forms, clothing, toys, furniture, shoes, oh the shoes!!  To the soft plush feeling of a flogger as it tastes my flesh, deceivingly soft, yet thuddy on impact! The feeling of bound wrists commands my attention in a way that in fact takes away my expectations to lead and for a moment in time, allows me to just "be".

But there is so much more than just being bound and flogged in the lifestyle of kink. I am a submissive to men who are very dominant in nature; I am drawn to men who are powerful, strong and control a huge part of their life;  yet I am a Switch (which allows me to be a Top, or administer) to men who crave being topped by a dominant woman. It is a fine line, but it also allows me to seek my own release that I crave when I am bottoming in a scene; yet allows me to explore giving what someone else needs. Whether it be impact play, humiliation, role play, bondage, the list goes on and in many directions.

I learned very quickly that I enjoy pain, I am a masochist, the more impact I receive the more it excites me. The arousal is intense and when done correctly the endorphin rush is amazing. Yet, I know there is more out there for me to achieve. The wall to push through, the trust to be gained, the dance between a Dominant and  Submissive powerful beyond mere words.

I think I will do a series on my transformation, it will be a journey worth sharing to my readers as well as showing me just how far I have come thus far....

Love, Live and Laugh

Sierra

Gracious Host~ A Kinky Evening ~ Mediterranean Style

The ambiance was set before we even got there, I in my red corset and mini skirt, Sir in his leathers. The evening was the inaugural Gracious Host event, we all had been looking forward to it.

The theme was Mediterranean food, the menu looked amazing and all we had to do was co-ordinate with others as to who would bring what wasn't already covered. We opted for wine and mini pumpkin tarts.

There were a few of us, not too many just the right amount. It wasn't long before various conversations ensued over drinks and some lovely flogging toys!! Now you wouldn't expect an inaugural dinner to have kinky toys, but this was no ordinary gathering of new found friends *grins*

The topic quickly turned to the beauty of the floggers and let's not forget the crops!! It wasn't long before the question would be ask "so whose going to receive". I grinned but felt pretty confident it wouldn't be me, but I had my thoughts on who it may! The lil fun loving brat was working well tonight, and she had met another equally fun loving and bratty. Oh the trouble we both could get into if left to our own devices!

Not too long before appetizers made room for the main meal, gradually we all dished up commenting on the various colors, the smells and succulent aromas were floating through the room. The candles were lit, the roses were sensual in their beauty, the autumn leaves laying beautifully across the dining table. The themed colors of red, mixed with various Fall colors, setting the tone.

Our Gracious Hostess had outdone herself and deserved to reap the rewards of compliments and toasts.  Appetites that had been waiting for what seemed like many hours were mere moments away from the main course. Lively in our conversations I took a moment to sit back and take in the moment, you couldn't have asked for anything better. A moment to see what a gathering of what had started out as strangers had now become acquaintances, were on the way to becoming fast friends. Some had connections not known before, the world ever smaller than we like to realize it is.

The next gathering will have a challenge of outdoing our Gracious Host - however the Kink part will always be there - but the next theme ought to be interesting.

Please feel free to share your comments and ideas below. I love to hear from my readers!

Love, Live and Laughter

Sierra

Expectations in D/s

I have been really reflecting on my life in the kink community. Don't get me wrong I love it in many ways, and yet I'm left to wonder....to what capacity do I want to be instructed to the depths of my day?

It is clear that my role as a Switch leads me to be very dominant at times in my vanilla life, that it does test most Tops.  There is definitely the rush of endorphins when topping a boy who is craving that push into subspace. Yet, when I look at MY role as a bottom in my D/s relationships, I can certainly see where the bratty yet sensual and sexy side comes into play.

 http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/sm.club99/article?mid=8&prev=3&next=2

Some would say "why do it", why be that lil brat that some Dominants will not tolerate? I believe it is because I expect to be put into line, after all that is what this submissive craves. The structure, the consequences, the attention, the building up of what is to come. However, there are times where lines do get crossed, boundaries can in the NRE (new relationship energy phase) as well, mostly because we are learning about one another and growing in the relationship and the brat had no intention of revealing herself.

I have been presented with an opportunity to help train a submissive in ways that I never thought I would. The negotiations are still being worked out and details are yet to come, but so far all that has been discussed looks promising.

The fluidity of D/s really depends on the relationship and experience of the Dominant and Submissive. I use submissive as that is what I am. I've tried to explore the idea of being Slave, but for me it is not possible to comfortably and wholly release my power to an individual with the expectation He will take care of my every need.

must be why that makes me a Switch.

I'd love to hear from you! Please leave me a Comment in the box below, and I will reply.

Love, Live and Laughter

Sierra

Something NEW! Happy HNT!!

I've been following a friend of mine's blog for a long time now, thank you padme amidala for your support on my blog and suggestions as I continue to develop and mold my own blog to what I want from it!!

So on this journey of mine, I have decided to ADD a new weekly feature! I've decided to add  "Half-Nekkid Thursday"  make sure you check out this link Osbasso 's for more  "Half-Nekkid Thursday" for more pictures! If you want to know more about the blogger Osbasso, by all means check out his site  http://osbasso.blogspot.com/.


The pictures I am showing are....well how about you the reader decide!! These are just a few of my favorites, and given that it is my first time posting a "Half-Nekkid Thursday" its so hard to choose just one, wouldn't you say?

The above that I have put up are from 3 separate shoots I have done in the last year. They each represent a side of me... my dark Pin Up side. She is so much fun, I am looking forward to bringing out more pictures for you all to look and comment on.

So don't forget to tell me which one you think I should submit to Osbasso 's site, I have to submit it by the end of today!! 

Love, Live and Laugh! 

Sierra